Rembering Some Fun Stuff

Sometimes the simple act of listening to music can put me on a high high or a low low. Today I was searching Youtube for songs that I really like. .

Goody Two Shoes video reminded me how hot I thought this man was back then. I used to fantasise about either very hot sex or love making with Adam. Adam in full make up no less. I still think he was damn hot.

The costumes took me here......

For a time I worked at a club called Confetti's. There the waitresses wore costumes. Among my costumes were, an American Indian Princess, a Construction worker, A pink cat, a Geisha girl ( I won a bottle of champagne for that one) and a leopard.

I made the most in tips the nights I wore the leopard costume. It took a long time to put together and I had to drive to work in it so I didn't wear it often. I wore face makeup and actually glued half of a Styrofoam ball, with fishing line for whiskers, on each side of my nose. My eyes were done in such a way that they did look like cats eyes. My eyes stood out very blue against the make-up. Every time I wore that one though I could count on making $300. or better in tips. Very good money and I didn't even have to take my clothes off.

It was fun to step away from who I was ( Mother of 3, member of the PTA, Head Room Mother, and Wife) and into character ( Slinky sexy whatever I had dressed up to be that night) A lot of nights the girls and I would get together and go to Denny's for breakfast. That was a hoot too because we were all still in costume. Oh the looks we would get! Imagine your reaction to seeing a leopard, a zebra, a old time saloon girl, and a nun at 2 am when your drunk. And it's not Halloween! "Matilda, You're right, I did drink too much. I see a Nun making out with Miss Kitty From Gunsmoke, (the Nun was a guy bartender) and over there is a zebra chasing a leopard into the woman's room!"

Assigning motives to people

Have you ever seen someone sitting with an intent look on their face and thought they were angry with someone, when in fact they were just in deep thought? I am sure it happens a lot. People tend to assign motives and moods to others that do not exist.

With the written word you would think that that wouldn't happen yet it does. People see what they want to see sometimes and not what is there. Or again assign emotion to it that doesn't exist.

Case in point my post was seen as full of anger and bitterness by one person. Those emotions never came into play. I was called judgmental. I was explaining what I and 95% of the female population is attracted to on a subconscious level. I didn't go into detail and site reference materials because quite frankly I had a poker tournament coming up that held much more interest to me than looking up facts I had read and learned in school long ago.

I guess my point is when you see someone sitting alone that looks mad perhaps they are trying to figure out how to do something. With me it would be a computer program, or perhaps how I am going to pay for my new computer.

I had a funny experience last night. A guy messaged me It was one of the rare times that I was not up to my neck programming or shhhhhhhhhh dont tell anyone in a poker tournament. So I decided to say hello. He was pleasant enough. He asked me if I had a mic and camera. I told him that I did but that I had just set up my new computer. He proceeded to tell me how to set them both up. He is telling me this on his mic. I typed lol and told him that I am a computer programmer. He still continued to tell me how to hook the dang thing up. And the camera too! Again I explained that I can take apart and put back together my computer add new parts up grade and do what ever I want to do. The issue was time and the level of importance to me. I don't think he even read that because on he went with instructions.

I am only human so I can tell you at this point I am more than a little irritated. Not that he is trying to be helpful mind you but that in his effort he was not listening or reading a thing I had to say.

I could easily see the following conversation.

Him: How are to tonight?

Me: I can’t talk right now. I caught my clothes in the chain of my bike and ended up breaking my leg.

Him: Oh bike chains must be oiled, and the cover must be on tightly. Do you have a screw driver I will tell you how to fix that right now.

Me: It was me I was wearing skirt with shorts. The skirt got caught in the chain. I need to go. My son is here to take me to the hospital.

Him: Now did you find that screw driver? Just take the cover and……

Ackkkkkkkk, Oh well it gave me something to think deeply about today problem was that a very sweet looking little old lady walked up and asked me who pissed in my Wheaties!

The All Important First Email.

This was a response to the oft asked question "Would you just ignore someone who said hi to you in person?" You know the post.. "I have written 100 emails in the last week and you rude fuckers didn't answer"

Yes, I do ignore people in person too. I am not obligated to respond to "nice rack" or "you're hot" in person anymore than I am on line. As for the "Hello, how ya doing?" I just nod and walk on, no eye contact.

I don't answer my door every time someone knocks on it nor do I answer my phone every time it rings. Yes, I can be a bitch like that. I don't get out of the tub for nothing short of someone breaking down my door. An email is like a knock on my door or a message on my answering machine.

For most woman there must be something engaging. In public say she is at a video store. A man could talk to her about the movie. I see you picked up "name of movie" I hated/loved it and why. Without giving away the ending please.

Here on the web you have tools to work with that you don't in public. You have her profile and (on some sites) her journal. Speak to her about something in one of them. Something you share a view on. She will most likely answer. She may not talk to you long if you do not hold her interest but at least she will most likely answer your first email.


So if you are going to knock on her door please at least try to engage her in conversation. If all you say is "hi, I like your photos" or "how are you" the guy trying to sell me vinyl siding has a better chance of not getting the door slammed in his face.